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March 3, 2026 – K.C. Victor was raised by a narcissist so reached out to many others for support. Trained in the true classics, then law school. K.C. married young to a man she still loves, and they have one daughter and five grandchildren in blended families. K.C. was an excellent legal recruiter because it involved both law and psychology.
Q. If you are in recovery, what was your drug(s) of choice and when is your sobriety date?
A. My drug of choice was marijuana, but because it was illegal when I got sober, I also abused alcohol, mostly Tequila, when I was near my daughter and others who I wanted not to know how often I smoked marijuana – almost every night.
Q. Is there anything special in your sobriety toolkit that helps keep you sober?
A. Working the steps even as an atheist.
Q. Do you think addiction is an illness, disease, a choice, or a wicked twist of fate?
A. Illness or disease – what’s the difference? I am also a Type 1 diabetic and especially from that perspective, I believe that we take what is a progressive and sometimes fatal disease – alcoholism/addiction and turn it into a chronic disease. Like any other chronic disease, it needs frequent, often daily, treatment to keep it at bay.


