NOTHING’S CONFIDENTIAL –
Feb. 20, 2024 – It is obvious that Lala treats sobriety as an all-or-nothing kind of thing, which is pretty rigid and not necessarily helpful to those around her. I can understand if Lala was struggling with her own sobriety how others using around could be triggering. But she has been pretty solid in her journey so why try to bring others down for trying what works for them?
This isn’t the first time that Lala has come across as holier than thou, but her comment about not recognizing Tom’s “sober curious” moment didn’t seem okay in my book. The whole point of sober curiosity is for someone to really look inward as they try to figure out if that is a lifestyle choice they want to make for themselves. Lala’s careless word choice could really discourage others who are thinking of a sober life from actually committing to it.
